By Tina Johnson
WAYS TO HANDLE TOASTERS AS A MARRIED WOMAN - Africaland Forum
WAYS TO HANDLE TOASTERS AS A MARRIED WOMAN - Africaland Forum
That you are married will not stop men from toasting you
It is largely your responsibility to remain faithful to your husband despite the fact that men are toasting you.
That you are married will not make men to disappear
WAYS TO HANDLE TOASTERS.
1. PRESENT YOURSELF WELL
The well you present yourself determines how people will treat you. Some of you married women acts as if you are still single.
Stop being too playful. Stop shinning your teeth to every DICK, TOM AND HARRY. Stop being too accommodating. Stop being too free.
Always remember that the way you take a guy is not the same way he will take you.
You may have nothing in mind but the way you are free, play, shine teeth, and accommodate etc., may make him begin to think that you like him and he will begin to talk nonsense.
2. KNOW YOUR LIMITS.
Start acting like a married woman. Talk as one. Dress as one. Behave like one.
3. WEAR YOUR WEDDING RING 💍
I'm aware that there are some women that doesn't wear jewelry because of religious or personal reasons, however wearing your ring does some good.
We still have reasonable men. When a reasonable man wants to approach you as a lady and sights your ring, he will back off because you are married.
Few weeks back, a uniform man was abusing a lady, calling her all sorts of names but on sighting her ring, he retracted and began to apologize to her.
Wear your ring, ma'am. It's an announcement to the world that you belongs to someone.
4. CUT OFF COMMUNICATION
Lack of communication is the easiest way to end any relationship. If you don't want disturbance from men cut off communication.
Stop giving out your numbers. Stop responding to chats of your toasters if you don't want to have anything to do with them. Stop picking calls from those men disturbing you and you will have your peace.
Block those men disturbing you for relationship or sex.
But some of you women still want to eat your cake and have it. You enjoy attention from men. You like the way they come after you. It makes you feel like you are still hot and sexy.
Let me tell you, you're trading on your dangerous ground. When a guy will sweep you off your feet, you won't know.
Cut off communication!
5. DRESS WELL
Dress appropriately. Stop competing with single ladies that are probably looking for husbands on who shows more of the cleavage, laps and the shape of the bodies. Your nakedness is meant for your husband only.
Dressing provocatively may cause some men with lack of self control to come after you. Prevention is better than cure.
She that fetched ant infected woods, has unconsciously invited the lizards for a party.
Stop dressing like a single lady. You are a married woman, dress like one. I'm not asking you to start tying wrapper up and down. Dress responsibly, that is all I'm saying.
Men asking you out is not the problem. The way you handle it may be the problem.
Men have right to ask you out and you have the right to say YES or NO.
Everything lies with you.
6. BE FIRM
Some men don't take no for an answer. So if you're not firm you will not win them. Some of you are shining teeth and playing with someone that's toasting you, you're not serious.
You're giving the guy more motivation and encouragement to persist in his pursuit. If I'm the one, I will not loose hope easily. I will still believe I stand some chances.
Be firm. Be decisive. If your answer is "No", them mean it. Stop romancing it. Let your no be no. Stop saying "No" with your mouth and "Yes" with your actions.
You said "No" to his request but when he calls you will pick, when he chats you up, you will respond. You guys will play, gist and laugh. You are not serious, mma
In conclusion, men should STAY OFF married Women!
When a woman tells you that she's married, let her be. Don't be a reason why someone's marriage crash.
YOU WILL NEVER GO FREE IN LIFE!
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